Should you select a Doodle Girl or Doodle boy? Either a female or a neutered male doodle make equally wonderful family pets. Both enjoy interaction with their people and are eager to please. Doodles are not “one person” dogs; they love everyone they meet.
There are some personality differences though.
A male dog is like a man; give him a sandwich and a remote and he’s content. Give the same things to a female and she’ll spend time looking for the perfect place to put it. I realize I’m making broad generalizations, and there are always going to be the exceptions. However, typically the male doodle is a little more independent than the female. The male wants your affection, then is content to relax beside the fireplace. The female wants your affection, then chooses to sit beside you. Both males and females will enjoy playtime and are wonderful with children.
My male wants to be in the room with me at all times and is very receptive to cuddling, but doesn’t ask for it. My female is also content to simply be in the room with me, however, she will initiate ear rubs and cuddles. They were both raised the same way and the differences are subtle – but there are differences.
You know best which dog personality suits your family.